Tuesday, August 30, 2011

6 online dating tips

The World Wide Web has completely revolutionized the online dating scenario. Online dating enables people to meet singles who have the same hobbies and interests. Now you are no longer required to go to any discothèque or shopping mall in search of some one special, you could talk with them by just clicking your mouse while sitting in your cozy homes. Online dating is fun, but it can also be dangerous if you are not aware of some aspects. To help you in the journey of online dating, here are some useful tips


Don't reveal your personal information


Revealing your personal information like contact number or address is not a good idea. It is better to communicate with the person by the message system that is provided by the site. If you think that the person with whom you are interacting is trustworthy, you can divulge the details after awhile of knowing each other.

Some precautions are always necessary, especially in the case of girls.

Set up the first date in public


If you set up your first date in a public area, you would be on a safer side. Tell your friends or relatives in advance about this destination, this way you will be secure if anything bad happens. Being aware is for your own benefit; don't trust each and every person on these dating sites blindly. Everyone is not good and you would find many creeps on the internet. Take your time, analyze and decide the behavior of other person. It is difficult to trust someone on the internet as you are not talking with the person face to face.


Communication matters


Although, you are not talking with the person directly but, still you can make out if the person is trustworthy or not.

You can analyze by talking to him or her. See if there is any kind of hidden danger in the posts or messages. When you are talking with the person for the first time, let the interaction be casual. Know each other better, this would give you the idea, how the person actually is. Beware of fake profiles.

Double date


Double date is another great option to ensure your security; you can ask your friend who is also dating at the same time. Double date would be a relief. If your date is boring. Double date is both fun and exciting, it also helps in breaking the ice, if both of you are shy and introvert. In case of double date you can be free and would not hesitate when it comes to your safety as there will be two more people with you to protect you in case something wrong happens.


Avoid alcohol when you meet


It is better to take preventions in beginning. Don't get drunk on your first date. It might lead to an intimate evening which you might regret later. So don't drink, when you meet him for the first time, it doesn't leave a good impression. Don't be scared as it's your first date, be cool and calm. If it doesn't work out with him or her, it's not end of the world. There are plenty of other options to explore. Take it slow and don't rush into things.


Don't be fake and rude


Nobody likes a fake person. So don't put any fake photo of yours on your profile. It is always good to upload an appealing picture, but a fake one leaves a bad impression and also misleads others. Never be rude to the person with whom you are talking. Abusing is an absolute no.