Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Online Dating Success!

So many people, no different to you in any way attribute their dating success to the medium of Online Dating. It's true there are others who haven't yet mastered this skill, but a few simple tips can make the difference between your next Friday night shared with the couch or a companion! The base structure of putting yourself out there, shading yourself in positive life and taking it to the next level meeting in person will allow you to invest in the summer fruits that is your awaiting romance.

1. Your profile is your starting point, and just like real life it's important to make a good first impression. Your page should not be an emo teenagers monologue of your shortcomings, but one that lets your fun, interesting personality clearly visible. This will attract people to you, your interests and who you are. There will be ample opportunity later to connect on a deeper level, so lets start being upbeat and positive!

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The next stage involves giving and taking, just like committed relationship. It is important to respect the infancy of the relationship, and not bombard your potential suitor with too many questions. It is important to show an interest, but too many questions can come off as intrusive. Keep it bubbly and positive, and be prepared to answer all questions asked of you.This giving and taking will allow you to build a rapport, and help move things to the next level.

3. Obey the speed limit! Don't move too fast. Bad experiences can occur because people get too excited about meeting someone too soon. Instead of chatting a couple times online and then meeting in person, chat for awhile online, then move to the phone, and then when you are sure that you would like to spend a couple hours with this person, meet them. When you take longer to meet in person you can be certain that this is someone that you would want to spend time with.

4. Make sure that you dress well on your first date. Everyone likes someone that looks good, but it is also a good idea to make that effort on a first date because you are showing them that you care enough about their opinion to dress well and take some pride in your appearance.

5. Keep it simple on the first date. Don’t plan to spend the whole day together, instead you should make sure that you plan something that is simple and short for the first meeting. For instance, plan to meet at a cafe for a cup of coffee so you can part ways if things don’t go well, and if they do you can choose to take in a movie.
I hope these simple steps you enjoy your Online Dating experience more, and lead you to your price charming! Au revoir!